THE WORLD OF FLIRTATION

courtesanBanqueter reclining with a drinking horn, Stabiae, 30-50 CE

This most un-Roman of all the Worlds came into being in the last half century of the Republic and outlived it by barely a generation. It was a world of floating artifice, a fiction constructed by the elegiac love poets that ran headlong into Augustus' program to rescue the mores maiorum (customs of the ancestors) and restore traditional Roman dignitas. This world was populated by un-Roman personalities: the young poet lover, his girlfriends — married women and prostitutes both —, absent elderly husbands, indulgent fathers, and conniving slaves. Its concerns were the pursuit and attainment of pleasure, for which love and the beloved were symbols. Women acted autonomously, choosing to marry sine manu, without passing into the legal and financial control of their husbands, which gave them greater personal freedom. The leading spokesmen for this world were male poets — Gallus, Catullus, Propertius, Tibullus, Horace, and Ovid — with the bright exception of Sulpicia. Although women and passion were at the center of this world, they were viewed through the eyes, words, and appetites of the male author. The new woman stepped lightly in her flimsy, transparent garments from one lover to another, enslaving them and leaving them with no regrets and no consequences. At last, setting as examples his own daughter Julia and the brazen Professor of Love Ovid himself, Augustus lowered the curtain on this world through legislation and exile, silencing its public expression if not its wantonness. See Greene (1998), Wyke (2002), James (2003) in the Bibliography and Images of Flirtation below.

Text-Commentaries Additional Readings
Publius Ovidius Naso, Amores III.2: Circus pick-up See the Latin reader The Worlds of Roman Women for the following texts:
Gaius Valerius Catullus, Carmina 70: She says, he says Sextus Propertius, Elegiae 2.23.12-20: choosing a partner
Sextus Propertius, Elegiae III.23: Love tablets P. Ovidius Naso, Ars Amatoria 1.135-162: hunting in the Circus
Cornelius Tacitus, Annales II.85.1-4: Vistilia P. Ovidius Naso, Ars Amatoria 3 (excerpts): how to get a man
Gaius Valerius Catullus, Carmina 27: Postumia Q. Horatius Flaccus, Carmina 3.9: Lydia and her lover
Quintus Horatius Flaccus, Carmina I.23: Chloe Sulpicia, Elegidia 1-6: she sings of love
Quintus Horatius Flaccus,Carmina I.5: Pyrrha See Iona Latin Reading Program for the following Latin texts:
Decimus Magnus Ausonius, Epigrammata 89: Amica P. Ovidius Naso, Amores 2.17: Corinna
Titus Lucretius Carus, De Rerum Natura 4.1121-1196: Venus C. Valerius Catullus, Carmina 11: Puella
Gaius Valerius Catullus, Carmina 3: Passer is dead  C. Valerius Catullus, Carmina 7: Lesbia
Quintus Horatius Flaccus, Carmina I.22: Lalage   
Publius Ovidius Naso, Metamorphoses VII.10, Gaius Valerius Flaccus Argonautica VII.9: Medea in Love  

Funerary Inscription:

See De Feminis Romanis at Diotima for the following Latin text:
for Maria Auxesis Sulpicia, Elegidia 1-6

IMAGES of FLIRTATION

All images are courtesy of the VRoma Project's Image Archive.